Well, in order to see me, I need to verify you are a legit hobbyist. While the easiest way is by giving a previous provider reference, it isn't the only way. I may also be able to verify you through your work. If you are a vouched member on Indys.com or a member with okays on P411 or date-check.com, that can serve as your verification also.
Verification is for my safety, your safety, and the safety of my past friends. I ask that you have your verification ready when you call. I will need the name of the reputable provider you have seen before, her number, a few details from when you met to help jog her memory. I also ask for your last name & contact number so that I can complete your verification. After we've gotten this little detail out of the way, our time together will be all about you.